which is which

I'm on my way of recovery and, needless to say it was hard. But then as my weakness get the whole of me, i still believed on something that is all i can think is there. And that is my faith in God,i felt that during those times something structured and solid is through Him and with Him. There could never be a perfect relationship even between families, politics and even nations, lets accept that, that's why im beginning to doubt those books and even theories on How to make a relationship work or perfect in that matter. And as i begin to insert this thought in a conversation people then again questions so i just smiled and then again change the topic. i would again then assume that there optimists, pessimists, and even realists in terms of relationships. These might be people who still continues to believe that love conquers all, i say it wont. During sometime in a relationship there would be trials and the only thing that might make you hold on is not love but loyalty or connection or belief that all problems would be answered. But then again a question would be raised. What is love? and how far is a person willing to go to when in love???

The optimists are those never been, the pessimists are those who has been and the realists are those who are still weighing what to be a pessimist or an optimist; so the realists are the intermidiate.

So i would have to ask which of the three sides are you now?